GentleMonths

Gentle, evidence-based parenting AI

The first three years,
read with you.

Four tools, one Mila. Decode a cry, read a diaper, triage a fever and decide which meal is age-appropriate — backed by AAP, NHS, LEAP and Dunstan reflex science. Honest. Never alarmist.

Plus the free 4-month sleep regression quiz — 90 seconds, personalised plan.

Or describe your concern in your own words
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  • EU GDPR + AI Act Art 50
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Mila, the GentleMonths AI companion

Mila· your AI companion

Baby Health Suite

One bundle. Cry + Poop + Fever, unlimited.

€19.99/month or €159/year. Saves 33% vs subscribing to each tool separately. The bundle is the rational pick if you'll use even two of the three.

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Mila — your AI companion

Who is Mila?

An AI companion, not a doctor.

Mila is the AI persona behind every GentleMonths tool. She reads the same evidence-based references your pediatrician uses — Dunstan Baby Language for cries, the Bristol Stool Chart for diapers, AAP red-flag rules across both.

She doesn't diagnose. She gives you a structured triage hint and tells you, in plain language, what to try in the next minute and when it's time to call your pediatrician.

And she remembers. Once you save your reads (Premium), Mila spots patterns no one would catch from a single moment.

😢 Cry💩 Poop🌡️ Fever🍽️ Solid Foods😴 Sleep

How it works

Three minutes. Three answers.

  1. 1

    Pick your moment

    Cry, diaper, or sleep. Mila routes to the right tool — or you tell her in your own words at the top of this page.

  2. 2

    Give Mila one input

    An 8-second recording, a diaper photo, or 10 quiz answers. Add baby age + feed type if you have a second.

  3. 3

    Read the structured answer

    Top categories, safety triage, what to try first, when to call your pediatrician. Saved for Premium.

What you actually see

Two readings, side by side.

Real layouts of how Mila replies — top categories, a safety triage badge, and a concrete next step. No empty confidence percentages, no upsell wall.

gentlemonths.com/cry-decoder/result/cry_8w_sofia

Cry Decoder

Sofia · 8 weeks · breastfed

Safety: none

8.2s · rhythmic · Neh-pattern visible at ~280Hz fundamentals

  • 1Hunger (DBL · Neh)
  • 2Comfort / attention
  • 3Tired (DBL · Owh)

Mila's note

You did the right thing by listening closely. Sofia's rhythm here lines up with the 'Neh' reflex sound — tongue against the palate, the universal pre-feed cue.

Try first

  1. Offer breast or bottle even if <90 min from last feed (cluster feeding is normal at 8w).
  2. Skin contact for 2 min if she refuses — pre-feed soothing.
gentlemonths.com/poop-decoder/result/poop_5m_leo

Poop Decoder

Leo · 5 months · mixed solids

Safety: watch
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Color

Dark green

Consistency

Mushy soft · Bristol 5

Hydration

Normal

Frequency

More than usual

Mila's note

Given Leo just started spinach purées, this dark-green shift is a common diet response and isn't alarming on its own. I'd watch the next 2-3 diapers.

Call your pediatrician if…

  • Color persists past 48 hours after stopping the new food.
  • Hydration drops (fewer wet diapers, dry mouth).

Composite examples for illustration. Real readings reference your baby's exact age, feed type, hours-since-last-feed and any recent food change you provide.

Trust & transparency

What GentleMonths is — and isn't

What it IS

  • An AI companion for the first 36 months
  • Evidence-informed (DBL · Bristol · AAP)
  • Saved history & pattern alerts (Premium)
  • EU + AI Act compliant GDPR
  • €9.99/mo per tool · €19.99/mo bundle

What it ISN'T

  • Not a medical device. Not a diagnosis.
  • Not a replacement for your pediatrician
  • Not an emergency service — call 112 / 911 if urgent
  • Never selling your data (ever)
  • Not built to keep you scrolling

Mila's designed to make you a more confident parent — then to step out of the way. No engagement traps, no hidden data sales, no alarmist push notifications.

Mila, the GentleMonths AI companion

Mila is waiting.

Open the tool you need right now — every one starts with two free reads, no card, no account.

Triage support for parents, not a medical diagnosis.